Who is The True Family of Jesus? Bible Study Lesson from Matthew 12 Shows Two Families
Who is the true family of Jesus? It’s a question worth thinking about. As believers, we’re blessed with not just one family—but two. One is our physical family, the one we’re born into. The other is our spiritual family, made up of those who follow God’s will. But what’s the difference, and how does Jesus define His true family?
In this study of Matthew 12:46–50, we’ll take a closer look at how Jesus viewed relationships. And, the reading helps us better understand our role in both our physical and Christian family.
The True Family of Jesus Christ
While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him.
Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.”
But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?”
And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.”
— Matthew 12:46–50 (NASB)
Two Types of Relationships: Physical and Spiritual
When we talk about relationships, emotional connections come to mind. Dictionary.com describes a relationship as “an emotional or other connection between people.” That fits pretty well here, too.
Physical Relationships – Our Earthly Family
There’s no doubt about it—our earthly families are dear to us. Many of us have deep, lasting love for:
- our parents,
- siblings,
- children,
- and extended family.
I still think of my parents often, even though they’ve been gone for years.
That kind of love is powerful. But it’s also tied to this world—a physical bond. And while it’s precious, it’s not the only kind of relationship Jesus wants us to embrace.
Did Jesus Reject His Earthly Family?
Not at all. This passage isn’t about Jesus turning His back on His mother and brothers. In fact, Jesus honored His family many times throughout His life. One of the most tender moments is when He was on the cross, making sure His mother Mary would be cared for by John (John 19:26–27).
So what is Jesus saying here in Matthew 12? Basically, He’s expanding the definition of what it means to be a part of His family.
Spiritual Responsibility – A Christian Family
Jesus teaches that those who follow God’s will are His true family. When we accept Jesus as Lord and Savior, we become part of a new, spiritual family. We are joined together with other believers as brothers and sisters in Christ.
This Christian family becomes just as important as our biological one. We share spiritual goals, support one another in faith, and carry one another’s burdens. That’s part of the beauty of Christian community.
So, Who Is the True Family of Christ?
According to Jesus, anyone who does the will of the Father is part of His family. That means:
- We are united with believers across the world.
- We are called to love and support each other.
- And we have a responsibility to care for both our spiritual and physical families.
Just like any family, we disagree at times. But we’re still connected through:
- grace,
- faith
- and through the bond of God’s love.
We are Blessed with Two Families
God has blessed us with the gift of two families: one of flesh and one of faith. While each is different, both follow His plan. As we grow in faith, let’s remember to nurture our spiritual relationships. And, treat them with the same care we give our physical ones.
So when you think about the true family of Jesus, please remember this. It’s not just about who you’re related to by blood, but who you walk with in faith.
Love In Christ
– Bob
If you would like to discover how to receive the love and life-changing experience of Jesus Christ, please take a moment to read John 3:16 for more information.